Sunday, February 24, 2008

centennial survey (nakigaya kahit huli na) :p

1. Student number?
98-secret! praning lang at baka may mang-i-stalk hahaha

2. College?

CBA, CFA, Law

3. Course?
Finished: BS BA (nung wala pang major at minor, one A hindi double A, hmmph!)

Started but not finished: Bachelor of Fine Arts

Currently taking: LL B

4. Nag-shift ka ba o na-kickout?
Umalis sa CFA

5. Saan ka kumuha ng UPCAT?
Philippine Embassy in Riyadh

6. Favorite GE subject?
Hum II, PI 100, Socsci II :D

7. Favorite PE?
Weight training

8. Saan ka nag-aabang ng hot girls/guys sa UP?
(1) Romulo Hall (Islamic Studies) pag may free dinner during the month of Ramadan :p

(2) Nung tanga pa ako, sa Narra Open House (can you believe it) hehehehe. (Peace sa mga Narra people na makakakita nito.

(3) UP Fair :)

9. Favorite prof(s)
GE: Nilo Ocampo, Abraham Sakili, Gerardo Lanuza,

BA: Gloria Talavera, Daniel Vincent Borja

Econ: Winnie Monsod

Law: Ayoko muna magsalita hehehehe

10. Pinaka-ayaw na GE subject.

Kas II (dahil boring ang prof), Hum I (dahil boring ang prof), Math 17 (dahil....)

Marami pa pero nabawi dahil okay ang prof :)

11. Kumuha ka ba ng Wed or Sat classes?
Social dance ng Wednesday, 8-10AM, first year freshman! shet! horror yun.

Saturday BA elective (Advertising)

Sa Law, palagi!!!!

12. Nakapag-field trip ka ba?
Field trip / Outing: PI 100 (Banahaw), Kas I (National Museum), Human Behavior in Organizations (Pansol), and I don't know if this counts... Com II (Vargas Museum)

Meron pang field work gaya ng pupunta sa Loyola Memorial Chapels to inverview an elbalmer hehehehe

13. Naging CS ka na ba or US sa UP?
Oo sa both. (shy pa daw kuno hehehehe)

14. Ano ang Org/Frat/Soro mo?

MSA, Portia Sorority, EJT, Philosoc (pero di nag-reaff), ARCADIA, and... coming soon!

15. Saan ka tumatambay palagi?
ARCADE MULA NOON HANGGANG NGAYON! - enuh

ME TOO! - xam :)

16. Dorm, Boarding house, o Bahay?
dorm - kalayaan and ilang-ilang

boarding house / apartment - up bliss

(gawd, i wish i could say nag-condo ako! hehehe)

17. Kung walang UPCAT test at malaya kang nakapili ng kurso mo sa UP, ano yun (Given ang mentality mo nung HS ka)?
College of Music or College of Fine Arts (naks!)

18. Sino ang pinaka-una mong nakilala sa UP?
Bukod sa kilala ko na nung highschool pa: Shet, nakalimutan ko na ang pangalan nila.. Isang lalaki maliit (na later naging bading) at ang friend niyang babaeng mataba na maitim sa infirmary nung check-up.

19. First play na napanood mo sa UP?
Merchant of Venice! Yihee, Portia. But I distinctly remember the first production i watched was a ballet by Ballet Manila, andun pa si Lisa Macuja. Free yun for freshmen Kalayaan residents. Ang ganda nun! Wala na akong ibang napanuod na ballet ever after that.

20. Name the 5 most conyo orgs in UP
JMA, JPIA, AISEC, CE... Wala na akong maisip.

21. Name 5 of the coolest orgs/frats/soro in UP.

Arcadia (kahit hindi recognized), Portia, APB, MSA, PVO

22. May frat/soro bang nag-recruit sa yo?
Yes

23. Saan ka madalas mag-lunch?

Nung undergrad sa CS, McDo, BA Cafeteria, Econ Cafeteria, and Kenny Roger's

Ngayon kahit saan, madalas sa bahay na bago umalis

24. Masaya ba sa UP?
Of course

25. Nakasama ka na ba sa rally?
Yes. Sa EDSA DOS. And learned from it.

26. Ilang beses ka bumoto sa Student Council
Twice lang ata nung undergrad, hehehehe

Sa law school, 3 times na.

27. Name at least 5 leftist groups in UP
Ayoko magsalita baka awayin ako! hehehe

28. Pinangarap mo rin bang mag-laude nung freshman ka?
Hindi

29. Kanino ka pinaka-patay sa UP?
Kanino pa kaya?!

30. Kung di ka UP, anong school ka?
Ateneo sana kaso ayaw ako ipa-entrance exam ng parents ko hehehe

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--------------------------------------- Excerpts from "Betrayal In Its Maximum" by Pau Duman

When I read this post, I couldn't help but have a bad nosebleed

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There is nothing worse than the feeling of being betrayed.

Being betrayed by one person you have trusted with all your soul. A person whom you had faith in when he cannot have faith in himself anymore. When you have always been there for this person when you don't even have enough time even for yourself.

Every name faith has, every little thing love and trust could do, were extended and poured to without apprehensions. No questions, no disbeliefs. Just pure faith.

And it hits you hard, and painfully so, that all of those things were just make-believe. All of the words are empty, all of the gestures are mimes, everything is just a show, a comical one. Only the joke is on me. And the laughters roll on in your head.

This is when forgiving oneself is the hardest. Because my soul has been shattered into a million little pieces and more and there was nothing I could have done. Or maybe there was. There was one chance where I could have saved myself, but I chose to stick through and through. Because that is how I am. I cannot give without giving everything. For me, giving is only giving when oneself is given. Nothing less. And now I'm paying the faith I invested and lost, probably negligently.

Negligence has been defined in law as the omission to do something which a reasonable man, guided by those considerations which ordinarily regulate the conduct of human affairs would do, or the doing of something which a prudent and reasonable man would not do (PNR vs. Brunty). The test purported in such case was: Did you use reasonable care which an ordinary prudent person would have used? I say I threw my care to the wind and lost all prudence to be exercised because faith for me is like that. Should the Supreme Court decide my case, I shall be found of contributory negligence and the damages that I could be entitled to would be greatly mitigated. However, the Court could also hold that I had the LAST CLEAR CHANCE of avoiding the mishap (of the heart) but didn't exercise doing so. Thus, I shall be fully liable and no damages would be awarded to me.

And that is the price of loving. I cannot find any cause of action. Not even the provisions in Human Relations. Article 20 states every person who, contrary to law, willfully or negligently causes damage to another, shall indemnify the latter for the same. But again this cannot apply to me since the Court would decide that I was guilty of contributory negligence, thus, Article 2179 would apply. Or the Court could choose to apply, to my great disadvantage and loss, the LAST CLEAR CHANCE doctrine and I shall be held solely liable.

I could use probably Article 24 which states that in all contractual, property or other relations, when one of the parties is at a disadvantage on account of his moral dependence, ignorance, indigence, mental weakness, tender age or other handicap, the courts must be vigilant for his protection. Under this article, I could claim that we had a contract, an oral one. A contract wherein BOTH principally obligate themselves that one would always be there for the other. And that is called a contract of love. This contract is not against the law, public morals and public policy. I say it is a valid contract. I could claim mental weakness because when one is in the state of love, all his logical and rational faculties are greatly disturbed. I could provide the Court with brain maps where a great upsurge of oxytoxin, seratonin and vassopressin cause the brain not to think. I could use what I know in Biopsychology to defend my case. But my being a law student would negate squarely my defenses. Mental weakness cannot be attributed to persons who study law. The court has always pointed out in a lot of cases, especially in our Legal Profession subject, that by being a lawyer or a law student, one is expected to have that superior mental faculty.

I want to shout that there is fraud! There is fraud and bad faith and everything that he has done for me for the sake of the so-called bullshit love is malicious! I should be entitled to damages under the Civil Code, Article 2201 second paragraph!!! He should be made responsible for all damages which may be reasonably attributed to the non-performance of his obligation! Please don't hold the case against me. Everything that I have done, I have done in utmost good faith!

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But the hurt doesn't go away. The pain is still lingering. It is true that the most painful wounds were not the holes bored on Christ's body, but those which were burrowed straight to his heart.

I have loved and I am suffering and I don't understand. I have to find my faith back and place it where it will never be misplaced, where it will be taken care of, where it will be valued.

To the Superior Judge of the Universe Court, I am giving you that faith. Faith in that justice will be served. That kind of justice which is seasoned with mercy. Be merciful.

But please be just.

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And here are my thoughts on the matter:

Sometimes people don't even know they have betrayed. Or maybe sometimes we feel that hurting other people who trust us is justified. I think about all those times I was betrayed, and how all I could ask myself is why, why did this person betray me? And I wonder if people who at one point trusted me have asked the very same question about me. I told my bestfriend one time, when she was complaining about how the one time she needed someone, everyone in her phonebook was not there for her (including me, sad to say :( ), when each time she was needed, she was there for everyone else. It hurt to hear that. And the only thing I could come up with to explain why I wasn't there for her was lame. All I could say was that we are in other people's phonebooks too, that we don't really know sometimes when we're disappointing someone else. In short, that's life. We get hurt, and maybe, we hurt other people too. I'm not saying there's karma (I don't believe in karma). Baka lang bilog ang mundo. Baka masama tayo lahat. O baka mabait talaga tayo lahat. Hehehe ang gulo ko noh? We can choose to forgive or to not forgive, in the same way that other people chose also to forgive us or to not forgive us. Either way, life goes on, and we can do nothing else but move on. At the end of the day, while we love fiercely and are loved fiercely, let's all admit it, we love our own selves the most, and that's why get hurt or hurt other people.

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